Learning to look inside with Solo

Hello, I’m Solo, the personality trait I represent is SOLITUDE. Don’t let the word solitude throw you; it means: I like to spend time alone to think. I especially enjoy thinking without distraction or interruption.

Solitude, my quiet place, is the time when I can look inside of me and, learn more about who I am and who I’m not. Examining how you feel inside is also called introspection. Ah, another one of those big words. Introspection means; taking quiet time to recognize and understand my feelings, my thoughts, and my actions. When I am clear and truthful with myself, I am able to decide what is good for me and not so good for me. Learning to look inside of myself really helps me to make positive changes.

The other ItsIts think, I overthink, and sometimes I do, but for the most part, solitude is a very special part everyone's personality and I'm grateful that I am the ItsIt that represents Solitude.

Solitude helps me to think before I speak or take action. Have you ever made a decision or choice and later realized it was a mistake? I’m sure you have, no one is perfect. However, I learned I could make less mistakes or bad decisions simply by taking the time to consider all of my feelings and the facts of whatever situation needed my attention. I think this is the coolest thing ever.

Here is some of the positive traits that Solitude, (quiet time) added to my personality:

  1. Better understanding of self and others

  2. Good decisions and wise choices

  3. More creativity

  4. Awareness, sensitivity, thoughtfulness and, respect for self and others

  5. Enjoying more happiness

Can you imagine NOT wanting all of these personality traits? I promise you will love making quiet time in solitude so you can discover new knowledge about yourself. It sure opened my eyes!

To get the most from your personal development, you need to understand that each ItsIt and the personality traits they represent all build on one another. In other words, it takes all of the ItsIt traits together to develop an emotionally healthy person who is confident, caring, positive, and productive.

To explain further, think of personal development in three stages:

1st.Stage: ItsMe, and Dynomi, offer you Self-Love and Self-Power = development of your relationship with yourself.

2nd Stage: ChitChat and Solo offer you Communication and Solitude = your relationship now includes others. Developing friendships, more understanding, being comfortable with who YOU are and being confident with yourself and others.

You are probably asking, “Where is the 3rd stage?” Well, there are two more ItsIts who complete the 3rd stage. They like to speak for themselves, but I’m sure they won’t mind if I introduce them. They are EQ and Driver; I can’t wait until you learn what new traits they represent.

Remember, solitude, your quiet time, and all that it offers will lead you on a good path. Trust me, if you only take the time to learn how to make better decisions and choices your day-to-day life will be more happy and will be easier when dealing with hard situations and difficult people..

Goodbye, for now, I hope you THINK about me often because I always THINK about YOU.

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